Yesterday I watched a movie, the Signs. There was a sentence I liked very much, it’s has been said something like: Don’t think you are special, because you waste your time by; you are not going to have girlfriend and living normal life, until you realise one day, you are as average as everyone else. You will realise you spent years without having fun and girlfriend.
Today I think all of us of the same energy. No one is chosen by God or you have different errand than the others. We are all here, because of the same reason; to live the life the way we desire, also to make the world better any way we can.
Now if anyone says something about me I just smile and I answer a “Thank you.” Because I know there is nothing about me, it’s my will. Everyone can look good, be smart or whatever. It’s all about how much effort yourself to be the person, you want to be. If I’m good at something it’s not because I am better than anyone else, but I want to be. You can do anything you want. As I recently read in a book, that you don’t need to have the look to be a TV anchor, but to have something to talk about.
I have a story about this theory when I was very young 10th/11th, yet it’s very instructive. At school I had a very beautiful classmate – maybe she was the most beautiful at this time – and there was the most charming guy. He was older and was in another class. I was the messenger and running from one to the other in every break time.
My look was pretty much different from the girls, because I was influenced by a soap opera, Muneca Brava and I dressed like a boy. Also I had a short hair. I did not look like a nice girl, I was just a very smiling and humorous one. When the time came to the big question to the guy: “Do you want to date her?” He said “Yes, but not to her. It’s you!” I became flushed and said “I don’t know!” then I run away. So I had to get my own messenger. :) At the end we spent a nice time together as young lovers.
I won the guy’s heart by my personality, and not by my look.
Today the honesty define my way of think. Do not interest me how a person looks like, dresses like or whatever, unless I can’t feel something. It doesn’t matter how old is, how success is, what talks about, but there is real smile or just something in the eyes, which makes me feel there is something inside to discover which cannot be seen, but you can feel it.
I like Shania Twain’s song ‘That Don’t Impress Me Much ’, which says you can look pretty, you can have car or brain, but do you have the touch?
Be one of the persons who do what the heart says and don’t worry about anything – by the time everything is going to be alright.
Live the life what makes you happy – in the meantime don’t forget to take care of your environment!
Photo by Nadja Karakasevic